Heartbreak

Are You Letting a Number Decide Your Worth?

May 25, 2025

May 25, 2025

May 25, 2025

You opened the portal.
You saw the number.
And your stomach just… dropped.

Maybe you worked hard. Maybe you slacked off.
But either way; now all you can hear is that voice in your head going: “Not good enough.”

So, as a friend;
Can I ask something a little uncomfortable?
Is this really about the grade… or what you’re telling yourself it means?

Because a score doesn’t know how hard it was for you to even show up.
It doesn’t see your mental health, your side hustle, your family drama, your everything.
But somehow, it still gets to define you?

“Grades are just letters. They do not define your intelligence, your effort, or your worth.” Dr. Alfiee Breland-Noble, psychologist & mental health equity advocate

Read that again if you need to.

You’re allowed to care. You’re allowed to be upset.
But what you’re not allowed to do?
Talk to yourself like you’re a failure for falling short one time.

🧠 Think about this:

  • If your friend got that score, what would you say to them?

  • What part of you feels like your future’s over because of one bad moment?

  • What would change if you believed growth > perfection?

You Are Bigger Than the Box They Measured You In

BhavnaQ isn’t going to give you fake positivity or study hacks.
It’s here to help you breathe, reflect, and not spiral into shame.

  • Emotion check-ins when the numbers make your chest feel tight

  • Journaling to unpack what this grade really triggered

  • Content that helps you rebuild self-worth outside of results

  • Tools to reframe “failure” as feedback; without the emotional wreckage

BhavnaQ; because you are not your GPA. You’re a full, messy, worthy human.

You opened the portal.
You saw the number.
And your stomach just… dropped.

Maybe you worked hard. Maybe you slacked off.
But either way; now all you can hear is that voice in your head going: “Not good enough.”

So, as a friend;
Can I ask something a little uncomfortable?
Is this really about the grade… or what you’re telling yourself it means?

Because a score doesn’t know how hard it was for you to even show up.
It doesn’t see your mental health, your side hustle, your family drama, your everything.
But somehow, it still gets to define you?

“Grades are just letters. They do not define your intelligence, your effort, or your worth.” Dr. Alfiee Breland-Noble, psychologist & mental health equity advocate

Read that again if you need to.

You’re allowed to care. You’re allowed to be upset.
But what you’re not allowed to do?
Talk to yourself like you’re a failure for falling short one time.

🧠 Think about this:

  • If your friend got that score, what would you say to them?

  • What part of you feels like your future’s over because of one bad moment?

  • What would change if you believed growth > perfection?

You Are Bigger Than the Box They Measured You In

BhavnaQ isn’t going to give you fake positivity or study hacks.
It’s here to help you breathe, reflect, and not spiral into shame.

  • Emotion check-ins when the numbers make your chest feel tight

  • Journaling to unpack what this grade really triggered

  • Content that helps you rebuild self-worth outside of results

  • Tools to reframe “failure” as feedback; without the emotional wreckage

BhavnaQ; because you are not your GPA. You’re a full, messy, worthy human.

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